Tips for Moving Your Elderly Parent

Start Planning Early

Give yourself and your parent plenty of time to prepare. Moving a lifetime’s worth of belongings and emotions requires patience and clear communication, not just logistics. Start the conversation weeks or even months in advance, so no one feels rushed.

Involve Them in the Process

Even if you’re leading the charge, your parent should feel involved in decision-making, especially when it comes to what stays, what goes, and where things end up in the new space. Respect their preferences while offering guidance and support.

Downsize with Sensitivity

Letting go of items tied to decades of memories can be tough. Go through belongings together, and avoid pressuring your parent to throw things away. Consider passing keepsakes to family members, donating gently used items, or preserving memories with photos or digital backups.

Tour the New Space Ahead of Time

Bring your parent to see their new home before moving day if possible. Familiarity can ease anxiety and give you both a better idea of furniture placement, safety updates needed, and what items will realistically fit.

Label Everything Clearly

As boxes are packed, label them by room and contents, and consider color-coding. This helps movers, family, and your parent find essentials quickly and reduces the stress of searching through dozens of boxes later.

Keep Medical & Personal Essentials Accessible

Make sure medications, important documents, comfort items, and a few daily essentials (like toiletries and a change of clothes) are packed in a separate, clearly marked bag your parent can keep close by.

Be Patient on Moving Day

Moving is exhausting, and it can be emotional. Plan for breaks, keep expectations realistic, and offer reassurance throughout the day. What feels like “just a move” to you may feel like a significant life change for your parent.

Follow Up After the Move

Help your parent settle in. Unpack the most important items first, make sure the space feels familiar, and spend time together in the new home. Emotional support doesn’t end once the truck is unloaded.